belago,Welcome to D360. I see you are already finding your way around this site. You can also write a blog and talk about whatever you want. You inbox is in the upper right hand corner. You can send private mail to other members using their member names. You can also write on your or other members' walls as I am doing now. I hope you find the advice and support you need. My ex worked overseas too. Mostly Southeast Asia. We also have a little fun on here too. Everyone needs a laugh at least once a day. How about filling in your profile so we can get to know you better. You take care and I hope you can find the right decision for you.