SO MEN GOODLUCK !!

WEll its finally over ( THANK GOD) and 65,000 for needless advice from Attorneys( i tried to settle it outside of her attorney who kept seeing $ signs), which had taken me 3 yrs to be divorced, and after court came to final decision of the amount to pay her , which i wasnt happy about but if it meant it would be done with and of course that left little money for our son who i am raising activities with his baseball that he does 3 seasons of the yr and camps training that he was used to doing when his mom and i were together(face it) the courts r more concern with exs way of life before divorce than the kids trust me on that !!, , and after all that time and money, SHE ASK ME IF I WOULD SIGN PAPER STATING THAT SHE COULD MOVE IN WITH BOYFRIEND SHE WOULD CUT THE PAYMENT TO WHAT I OFFERED DAY 1 to be done with everything. which is half, r u kidding me ?, of course i said yes ! but if she gets married to him which its her first b/f and only one she has dated but she saw he had some money, she loses my alimony , i can see it now maybe 2-3 yrs if she sees she can control him and how much money he will spend on her, which i hope its alot then she will marry him, then i am done paying , and one thing money cant replace is her son who hasnt talk to her in 2 yrs cause it was always about her!!,

just remember going into court baseball, you owning your own company and people who have jobs with other people are treated like two completely different animals in court.