I'm glad to hear things are going better for you. I was waiting to hear an update on how things were going. I first read your story a month or so ago and I am in a very similar situation, and have been for 2 1/2 years. I hope the separation for you doesn't last as long as mine, it's very trying on me and the kids. No matter what happens, it seems you learned alot from this and that's good. I have too but it's still hard to move on even though I know I should after this much time. I want a normal relationship, not where we live in separate homes and the kids have to go back and forth still seeing us act like a family. It's very confusing for them. I did it because I was desperate to make it work no matter what (still am). Again, glad things are going better and I hope it continues. Take Care.