Ana, I read your post on redstar’s “I’m Lonely” blog. How you explained that you may be with someone but still be lonely is exactly how I felt in my marriage. Our difference is we don’t have kids. Towards the end he and I were sitting on the couch watching TV, I asked him a question but he just kept staring at the TV and never answered me. Like I hadn’t said anything at all. That’s not the first time something like that happened, but that incident made me feel invisible. And that’s when I knew I couldn’t live like that anymore. Why can’t they just open their eyes? What do you have to do to get their attention? The only time my ex paid any attention to me was to make sure no one else was. Anyway, take care of you and your kids. Someday you’ll find a man that’s deserving of you.

Hi. I read your post and I am in complete shock as to how similar our stories are. I would love to talk with you if you are up for that? But I have a 18mos old and my ex is trying to get 50/50 split custody and think that is wrong for a baby. The judge ordered a temp order when my ex gets her for 5 days then I get her for 5. I think this is terrible! A baby needs their mother, especially when I've been her primary caretaker since day 1. My ex is addicted to porn as well and he stopped being intimate with me in my 7th month of pregnancy and my daughters 18mos old!!! My ex also has problems with alcohol. I keep hearing from everyone that it takes an act from God to take custody away from a parent and you have to have an astounding amount of proof as well. I can get in to more detail as we talk. Please,if you could talk with me and tell me how your case turned out if it is even settled? Thanks and take care of you and baby :)

hey, did you get a hold of your attorney about the adjornment? (I haven't been online, just saw your wall post)