hi there, it's best to post your questions in ADVICE so the entire community can see it, read it and comment on it. hope that helps.

Well, I am moving out on the 7th, shortly after my dr appt and ultrasound, I would have left already but I had to make sure I could make this dr appt, incase he takes my military id card when I do move. He continues to threaten me and has become violent to a point but is always quick to apologize when he leaves a bruise. But he gets so mad at me and actually expects me to sit down with him and help him fill out his divorce papers and to sign away all my rights. Is he really that freaking crazy? I'm not giving an inch, its not to be a bitch, but because i don't want to get screwed and end up with nothing. It's not my fault that we are getting a divorce, it's his, so why should it be a cakewalk for him after everything that he has put me through the past month? Maybe I'm being childish, but at the moment I don't really care. I need to find a lawyer though so i'm gonna go through the phone book, wait, can't do that... he threw those away last week. So i'll borrow the neighbors phone book on monday while he is at work and call around. Hopefully I can find one that is good and won't cost me an arm and a leg.

I found a lawyer that gave me an initial consultation for free. He let me know what I was looking at and based on how he treated me on the phone for that initial meeting, I hired him. Do you have anyone that can help you with the funds for a lawyer? I hope so. Post again so we can see how you are doing and maybe offer some support. Hugs...