woahhhh - im so glad for you that you are out of that relationship. how horrible. (((hugs)))

Your reply to "when did you know your divorce was final" took my breath away. I will never understand spouse that can not except the illness and changes that come to their spouses bodies. My uncle told my aunt if she had a hysterectomy he would leave her. She did not get the surgery and in a year was dead from ovarian cancer. (((((hugs))))) to you You are a surviver in more ways than one.

Hi abrenner, I seriously never knew such mean words could go toward a woman. We've all heard the usual words that roll right off a mean woman's back since they usually don't compare to the hurt (why ever he's saying it) and never fixes anything. But that was truly awful. I'm really happy to read in Top 3 Things about your "easy-to-be" with guy! (a helpful reminder to me?...) I think we all want someone like that (it can even be the source of cheating - I heard it, female neighbor, hubby weight-lifter intense guy), but I guess equally important is we make ourself that easy-to-be with person. Pleasing personality Napolean Hill said. I'm so happy the other stuff is behind you, wishing that NEVER ever ever happened. No matter your age or shape if the man sees your beauty he'll always see it! Just show him! A bit funny too, about "stud muffin," so just turn him into one! Well, you know, the one for you.