123 - do you write here anymore? I have not been on the site for a long time but check in every once in a while. Part of the healing process. HOw are you?

Hope you are doing well :-)

Hi I am Kevin. I have seen your name in here a lot and we share some of the same friends. I am new at this divorce thing and find that the process is very slow. Patience is a virtue which I wish I had more of. I am looking forward to a new life, I am not sure why. Read my story if you wish. I get excited when people write me and I hope that we can support each other during these difficult times....................Well, Happiness is a choice. Life is too long to be miserable and too short to be happy. The difficulties we face now, strengthen the mind as labour does the body. Change is the law of life. If we stay in the middle of the road, we get run over. So we must accept change. In the end I think that we will be stronger people. After all, what is strength without a double portion of wisdom?.......................So during these times we must not be too hard on ourselves. Enjoy simple pleasures like a glass of Merlot. Look after your health very well. Keep busy and active. Donot isolate yourself. As I have learned, my family and friends donot want to talk about it anymore. So try to vent yourself here and say little to those you know. My friends run for the hills when they see me. I hope that you enjoyed your weekend as Saturday was July 4th. I wish for your happiness in the future. Kev