I just wanted to check on you and see how you are doing. Isn't LIP wonderful? She makes me laugh ALL THE TIME. She has gotten me through some pretty rough times over the past couple of weeks. Update on me, the OW is moving here on the 8th of August. Oh joy! She is such a generous person. She wants to start a non-profit for the homeless. GAG! We already have a great place established for the homeless. She's just going to take away revenue from an already established charitable organization. Whatever. This is a very cliqueish town, I don't see her, an outsider, making it. I can always hope anyway. I hope it fails miserably and she gets the hell out of dodge! Anyway, drop me a line and let me know how you are doing. You're in my prayers!

haha! thanks, i'm glad to have made you laugh. yeah, luvmykids wrote on my wall said she was LMAO cuz i used the word "twat". She said she read it out loud in her office and everyone was laughing. I have no idea where in the back of my brain I came up with "twat", lol! I don't think that words been used in what? forever? lol!! hey she had that slam coming. whore, hahaha!! (i read all her prior blogs, that's why i was pissed. she's effin nutz).

Sweetie, I don't know your story but it sounds sad like mine. I've been married 22 years and have known about my stbx's addiction for 12. I stood by him and tried to help him but only he can help himself. This is the first affair that he's had but he has "cheated" on me the entire time. Porn is cheating. The internet is cheating. etc. etc. etc. My counselor told me that he is so full of self-loathing that he had to find someone that fit his self-worth. For years he has told me that I am too good for him. I know that when he is not in the midst of his addiction that he is a good man and father. But it is as if the addiction has taken over. I am convinced that the OW is a part of his addiction but too much has happened to where I don't think there is ever a chance of going back. And in all honesty, I wouldn't go back. I would only move forward. Hang in there! If you ever need to talk send me an email on here or post on my wall. Take care!