What was I thinking
How Did You Meet?
mutual friends
Describe your marriage before the problem.
somewhat happy. The problem was always there underneath the surface. I thought if I loved him enough we could overcome whatever came out way.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
He would have angry bouts for no reason. The world was against him. Things were a conspiracy. The day I drove myself to the hospital (gallstones) I knew in my heart it was the beginning of the end.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
Tried therapy, crying, pleading, and praying.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
Receiving an email from him. "The divorce was granted" to my job. It was so cold.
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?
Not to bad mouth the other parent. Keep the lines of communcation open. Easier said than done. Forgive, not for the other person but for yourself.