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When my educated daughter told me what I was enduring was emotional abuse.  Me being a psychology major in College, denied this to her.  It couldn't be....could it?  Exploration took me to a therapist, who told me that I had been "narcissized".


After reading everything I could get my hands on regarding narcissism and realizing what I was married to....what it was doing to me (I was disappearing)....I filed for divorce.  To say the "shit hit the fan" is an understatement.  Don't ever pick a fight with a narcissist unless you can afford & sustain the wounds he'll inflict on you. 


The ugliness that came out of the person I thought I knew for over twelve years.  He was "insulted" that I wanted to divorce him and proceeded to "kill me off" regarding anyone that would listen to him....family, friends, strangers....


For women:
Save whatever money you can.  Set up your own credit accounts. Get female support for the bad patches.


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