How do you say goodbye to 25 yrs
How Did You Meet?
In a bar/Blind date
Describe your marriage before the problem.
Routine, he would come home watch his tv in the living room and I would watch mine in my bedroom, he like to watch races and I movies. He never took me out on date night so my girls and I would go to the movies.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
When he took me off his checking acct two yrs ago and got his on cell ph. I knew recreational drugs were playing a part also in his life but he thought he as hiding it from me.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I had my oldest daughter in her last yr of college and my second daughter starting college, and my 13 yr old still to support. I knew I could not do anything just yet, not until the older ones were more established.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
That I wont be able to live without his paycheck, not that he gives me anything of it now, I might get 100 for groceries, when he brings home 950 a week, and believe me I use to do the bills I know hat it takes. The girls and I never see shopping money for clothes and etc...
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
As of last week he is out of the house do to a argument that got out of hand. I need to act very soon on what im going to do. He is doing what he wants and acting like this does not bother him. But for me it hurts, I need to not let my feelings get in the way.
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?