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Male, 40-49, MI, separated, 2 kid(s), looking, 15 years married, cause - She wont tell me, she just took the kids and moved 250 miles away,

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How Did You Meet?

We actually met at my brothers reception, I was best man, she was the only one who seemed to not be having a good time... after a few rejections I told her that if she didn't dance with me I was going to sit on her lap for the rest of the night.

Describe your marriage before the problem.

Hmmm.... its hard to explain, when she work with me I.E. worked together, it seemed that we were unstoppable everything was great.

Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.

She started spending more time with other men in the neighborhood than with me, (I was working nights though). But as long as I was handing that paycheck over...

What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?

I really didn't have to do anything... She convinced my employer that she had a suprise for me and needed me to work on a Saturday. When I came home SURPRISE! the place was cleaned out, the bank was cleaned out, the mortgage was six months behind, and she was gone with the kids.

If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?

I haven't seen her of the kids in over a year, she left me homeless, foodless, penniless, and shortly there after I became jobless. My fear is that she has done something or convinced the kids that I don't love them.

If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?

1. There are many different stages to a break up, you will have to go through all of them.

2. Despite how hard it is, you have to remember the bad times, if you just dwell on the good times you may end up back with them and in a worse situation.

If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?

With respect to my "tips" in the "if your not yet divorced" I would give just about anything to have my family back. Words can't express all of the emotions I feel.