Fun while it lasted...
How Did You Meet?
I was on a vacation in Thailand. We met on the beach - he was/is Thai National.
Describe your marriage before the problem.
There were problems all through but we were focused around our children and were true partners for a time. The sexual aspect of our marraige was never quite satisfying, and later I found out why.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
Finding gay porn. You'd think that'd would've made it clear but I believed him that it belonged to someone else. Second time, no. We already had issues but once I found out he was gay, I just couldn't pretend anymore and the other issues which hadn't seemed so huge became unbearable. .
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
We have been seperated for nearly three years. He moved back to Thailand. We are amicable and the kids go see him every summer ( on my dime) but am now realizing I need/want to finish this and begin our divorce. Need to get free.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
I just want to divorce to go smoothly - don't want judge/court in my business.
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
Time helps. For me, I didn't need torush into divorce and now am completely ready. It takes what it takes.
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?