How Did You Meet?
He was in the service, stationed in Germany, we met while I was walking my dog, fell in love right away, he was 19, I just turned 16.
Describe your marriage before the problem.
I guess it was ok, we've had our ups and downs, but after 30 years who doesn't?
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
a few weeks ago, my grown son found my husband in his truck with another woman "just talkin", until my husband came clean about his "secret life" after I moved out
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I moved my daughter, 19, and myself out of the house the following day, I think that was the biggest surprise of his life
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
That he will not be OK
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
know that you don't really "need" someone else and that no matter how long you've been with someone you really don't "know" the other person
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
not yet initiated divorce, just separated myself from the situation, trying to cut the ties
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?
not yet