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I was a sales rep and he was a customer. 


I chose to ignore the problems that we had since day one. He always put his job first, and I let him. He told me how I should feel, and I let him. I tried to be understanding and a "good wife." Labor for my second child was induced on his day off so he wouldn't be inconvenienced. Picking me up at a hospital an hour from home after a car accident was put off till he got off work. A neighbor took me to the hospital after a miscarriage because he wouldn't take off work. 


I suddenly realized that things were always going to be the way they were. That I deserved more than being ignored and unimportant to the person who I should matter the most to.


I tried to tell him I wasn't happy. When he didn't listen, I tried to show him by withdrawing. He didn't notice. When I finally sat him down and told him I was unhappy, he went crazy. He started acting like someone I didn't even know, constantly picking fights with me and making nasty remarks. He made my life miserable for months until finally I gave up and filed. Now I am starting to think he has a mental disorder because of his erratic, unpredictable behavior.


That this will drag on forever. That my kids will hate me by the time this is over.


Get a good lawyer, and a make sure things stay on track. Don't let your STBX (or life in general) delay things and cost you time and money.


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