17 yrs with someone I thought was my soul mate and now this!!
How Did You Meet?
Met when I was 16 yrs old and we worked together.
Describe your marriage before the problem.
We started to slowly drift apart because he would take off by himself alot and leave me with the kids and didn't want to go out with our friends anymore--stayed to himself alot.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
He stopped talking to me and his kids and started being out more and more by himself with no explanation, so I checked into the cell phone records and found the evidence.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I confronted him about what I found, that he was texting and calling this chick every day for months--of course he claimed they were "just friends" but found out that's not the case they had been seeing each other secretly for months.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
The hardest part was losing the person I thought was my soul mate and knowing that he cheated and lied to me for months, it felt like my heart was yanked out of my chest and stomped on several times!! The hardest part was seeing him act so hateful towards me when it came to child support and money issues!! That's all he really cares about is money and I guess I finally woke up to that fact.
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?
To get a good attorney and fight for your rights and your childrens rights as well. Don't give in just to get it over with quick!!