My Story ::  DAZEDNBROKEN

How Did You Meet?

We met in 1986 at a Youth Group function.  He was the most handsome man, well boy with sexy baby blue eyes.  We were only 14 and was just crazy about him.  We dated off and on through out school until our senior year and we stayed together.  He went off to the Military and when he came home he asked me to marry him. 

Describe your marriage before the problem.

We had the kind of marriage everyone was envious of.  We was a true team.  The perfect military family.  There where hard times but we always talked and got through it.  I couldn't have been so lucky to marry a man as wonderful as him.  And what a wonder father he has been. 

Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.

He came to me and told me had an affair about 7 years ago, I left and came back.  Promised me never again.  I had two children didn't know what else I could do I was stuck I didn't want our kids to grow up with out both parents.  I forgave him and it was hard but we worked through it.  He regained my trust and everything had been great...until two years ago...he had a co worker that he got real close to and it bothered me and I told him and her about it.  But it didn't matter, it continued.  He is living away and now she has moved to be near him.  It is obvious what is going on, they are not just friends. 

What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?

No I haven't.  We will be living together again soon and she will not be able to move with him.  I feel like I owe it to my kids to try.

If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?

Not being able to provide for my children, and being alone.

If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?

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If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?

If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?