Marriage Built On Dreams
How Did You Meet?
We were employed by same company
Describe your marriage before the problem.
We both came from previous marriage, we carried baggage into our marriage with children, ex spouses, finances, different goals.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
Our children from previous marriages had grown and we drifted apart in our goals and life together. Life was not calm or peaceful, verbal abuse ran rapid thru those last 8 yrs.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
Tried therapy but it was a lost cause, he was not happy and was angry and in turn I became unhappy and angry. I filed for divorce first, we attempted a reconciliation for a few months, than he filed and moved out of house.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
We are separated, he lives about an hour from the house we are selling, all responsibility falls on me, I am working part time. I am worried about the ability to hold a full time job since I have not worked outside of house in 7 yrs and over 55.
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
First and foremost, make sure you are financially stable to support yourself, next secure all financial documentation....get your hands on all documents BEFORE you decide to divorce.
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?