Confused...
How Did You Meet?
In the Military
Describe your marriage before the problem.
We had good times and bad as does anyone. But, he never wanted to do anything with me and our son, and when he did give in and did something, he wasn't interested. Made me want to do things on my own, but then I did my own thing and he got upset that I was never home. So I wouldn't do anything, and I stayed home, and he ignored me.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
It was the 3rd or 4th time I had confronted him on not wanting to do stuff, and not wanting me to do what I wanted, and I asked that he would leave...or we would get counseling. He went with the counceling. The counseler decided that my husband was maybe depressed and we should get out of the slump by doing things together, yet here I am, Alone.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I keep thinking the counceling will work and he will get better, but I am afraid he will just slip back into not wanting to do anything, and now I am depressed, and I don't want to do this anymore.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
That I will be making a mistake. Our child will suffer.
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?