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In High School, he was a friend of my sisters.


Absolutely wonderful. True love at its best!


When he came home from the military and did nothing. Everything was on my shoulders, ie working fulltime, finishing my degree, cooking, cleaning. I felt like he lost the vision we both had and I was left to execute it by myself.


I hung in there, however, I was not the nicest person to him. He began to resent me, I began to resent him and he eventually fell out of love with me. I still hung in there, as I am still in love with him, but I became very fed up over the last couple of years. I was still interested in making it work, but he wasn't. He has been gone from the relationship for quite some time now and it took awhile for me to realize that and let it go.


My greatest fear when all of this was happening was, losing him forever. I also feared being alone.


We are separated, however I would share:
1) When you love someone and make that committment know that you love them for good or bad, you love all of them, even their faults.

2) Communication, Communication, Communication. I found that althought we talked about everything and anything, when it came to serious things, I THOUGHT I was listening but I really wasn't.


Him falling in love with another girl so quickly. Him having this new girl around my children so quickly and him moving out in 2weeks.


1) Live your life to the fullest this is a new beginning

2) People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Take it for what it was, learn from it as best as you can, and move on!


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