Bad men magnet!
How Did You Meet?
I was a Hot 26 year old with 2 small kids, now I'm 36 not too Hot, pretty cold actually, a new small child who is the sunshine in my cloudy days. We were introduced by my cousin. He was alone and struggling and I was just alone.
Describe your marriage before the problem.
Marriage was always bad. His baggage didn't fit in the closed with his skeletons. He had 2 ex's three kids and came from an abusive childhood. He was handsome, funny, full of energy and was good to my kids.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
When he began to show signs of his abused childhood. He was verbally abusive. Didn't know how to apologize and was selfish and mean.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I have shut down over the years. We tried counseling, went to one session, but he would get mad when I told on him. We would fight all the way home. I gave up, I moved out on Easter weekend, I'm calling it my Resurrection.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
Being alone and never finding someone else, someone good and kind and loving, I've never had that.
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?