My Story ::  akuna

How Did You Meet?

we met in High School

Describe your marriage before the problem.

well we lived with his parents because he refused to live/ abide by my mother's house rules. I was working full time at UPS and going to school fulltime while having an infant to care for. Josh was jumping from job to job not keeping a job no longer than 2 months. I joined the air force in 2006.

Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.

the first time I realized I had a problem was the day we had got in to a heated arguement and I was going to seperate my self from the situation for a little while I was heading to my mothers house while I had my son in one arm and keys in the other my STBX. ripped the keyes out of my hands bruising my hand scaring my son and leaving me no choice but to call me mother to come get me then next was my sisters WEDDING he was drunk and got angry took off walking i was leaving to go home he jumped on top of my car pulled the ebrake while I was trying to undo the ebrake he popped open my hood and ripped out the spark plug wires out of the engine I drove hme on 2 cylinders that night a trip that usually took 1 hour took me 2 and half hours.

What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?

we are currently seperated my states

If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?

that he will try to kidnap my son AGAIN or try to hurt me or my son

If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?

file first there is no being nice I tried being nice and work with him My son was kidnapped and I have lost thousands of dollars because I was trying to be nice. and the second thing make sure your child is not being used the one thing that has killed me the most is when my son told me "mommy, daddy said you don't love me or dad anymore"

If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?

the effect it has on my child and the relationship we once had

If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?