This  situation is really getting to me.

My bf is doing what he is supposed to be as per the separation agreement. We are attempting to make changes to it and go to court this week

He wants his kids to be involved in sports in their schools, they , like him, are very athletic.

He signed his middle son up for a basketball camp. This is one that my kids (also athletic) and his kids might and probably will play against each other. They scrimmage all next weekend . They play on teams with kids from their own schools but play against competing schools. This is a very good way to make the kids visible to the schools coaches in a nonschool atmosphere .

His ex said he can't do it because my kids are there. They will play against each other in season for football this year and basketball next anyway. Not much difference.

His ex told someone in her church that she could not believe that " I involved the church in this". All I did was email one of her friends after I received an invitation to a party that she was having ( she does it for a living) that I would not be supporting her in any way shape or form because of her helping his ex in her stalking efforts. And if it continued I would press charges. It stopped at that point , btw. I have not ran around gossiping or bashing her with her church people .

She on the other hand, summonsed our youth leader ( a good friend of mine) to court last year, even though his testimony (had he not forgotten about it) would have sealed the case against her. She has tried to keep our kids apart( even though they have been friends for over 5 years)  Our kids range from 10-26. My youngest two that are still in the nest are 15 and 16. His oldest 2 are boys and are 13 & 16.

What are their rights? Can a lawyer be hired for them so that they can be informed of what they are? We requested they be given one by the judge but were told it was an unneeded expense. If we can do that can we get them to a counselor so what is happening can be brought to light?

His son really wants to do this camp. She says he can't. He cried to his dad on Friday night and asked him to get him out of there. He just got in trouble last weekend and may have to go to court. These kids are going to be screwed up the rest of their lives.

She is driving them away. To see the hurt she is doing is driving me crazy. In her effort to control them she is driving them away. No one can tell her anything..she won't even listen to her pastor. She needs help. I cannot imagine anyone doing what she is to her kids.  The kids feel helpless as do their dad.