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I wish I could be in a relationship 

I know it is impossible right now and not even the right thing to do until the divorce is final but I wish more than anything I could have some form of interaction with a woman tonight. I don't mean sex either. Just a nice long conversation about anything and everything would be wonderful. A conversation over dinner sounds perfect. I don't know how much longer I can live like this. I try to do things to take my mind off this loneliness but sometimes it just becomes over whelming. Living in my cave on my makeshift bed in the basement isn't helping. I've been existing down here for a few months now and it is getting very old! I haven't had a meaningful conversation with a woman in years and I'm really missing that tonight.

 

OK. I have vented and I guess now is the time to take my own advice and find something to take my mind off of this. Dang I hate Saturday nights! Maybe I'll try and read a good book.

by RichBrewer  214 Posts 

Posted on 7/5/2008 7:39 PM
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Hi Rich, I read you responses, your a good man. Hang in there the right person will come don't rush or you might end up in something bad. You need to get out. Mb is right  go find new things to get involved in and  you'll make new friend. hang in there.
by asim   773 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 11:43 PM
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I know one thing, if I ever have that special woman in my life, I will appreciate her with all of my heart. I will think back on these lonely nights and remember how it was.
Lets not ever take for granted the wonderful things in our lives!
Maybe going through this will make our future relationships richer and so much better. We sure will be able to compair the good to the bad!
My thoughts are with all of the lonely people who are  needing what they can't have tonight. Best wishes to you and I hope you find what you are looking for soon.
by RichBrewer   214 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 11:18 PM
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I have those nights too, especially weekends and holidays. The loneliness was there when my stbx and I were together, but I find it more difficult to deal with after he moved out. The desire to have a companion is overwhelming from time to time. I believe that is why people rush into one relationship after another. I did it once long time ago when my ex-boyfriend and I broke up. It is a mistake I will not repeat this time. The loneliness will have to be here a little longer. It sucks, but it will pass. Nowadays my favorite saying is "Patience is a virtue." Take good care of yourself!
by Alison   114 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 10:16 PM
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