Found out that wife has been fooling around with the carpet cleaning guy that cleaned our basement after it flooded, and found out about an affair she had with someone she used to work with or still does, and I bet there are alot more that I don't know about, I found out this after the fact, I filed. I have been lied to for the over 4yrs, she kept telling me there is nothing and no one, but still hid her phone amongest other things I found out that were strang. I have 3 kids, I got blamed once for having affair when she was the one having the fling. Her family knows about this and friends, I feel so betrayed and so sick to my stomach.
I don't know who I can actually trust anymore.
All of this before our 10yr anniversary.