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6/30/08 

Friends came down from where I used to live and we hung out in the afternoon.  It was great to see them and they are coming down in a few weeks again.  I'm really looking forward to hanging out with them.

 

Being alone continues to get easier and easier.  This weekend went along way to getting rid of or at least handling triggers better.  I still want to get the house sold so I don't have to deal with her, but the last 10 days have been very good.  She comes back tomorrow so I think I'll go out as I really don't want to see her.  I expect she'll come back all angry like normal.  Who knows maybe she won't come back so she can be with this new guy full time.  That's my best case scenario.  Unfortunately I don't think it will happen as that would mean leaving the kids.  However based on the fact she spent very little time calling them maybe she doesn't really care right now. 

 

I'm going out to dinner with a friend tonight.  She's very nice and talkative so it should be a nice evening.

by falcon81  240 Posts 
Posted on 6/30/2008 10:20 AM
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Striker,

Get out an just make some companions for dinner and such.  That's kind of where I am.  The morfing is very difficult, but just remember the person you know see is not the person you loved.  Its what's getting me through.  Good luck these next few days I am sure it will be very difficult but you are going to be with family.  Let the emotions go and just be yourself as much as possible.
by falcon81   240 Posts
Posted on 6/30/2008 3:29 PM
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falcon~
Doesn't it amaze you how they can " morf " into a totally different person? It sure does me..... Have a good time at dinner tonight... I wish I had that....It will be 4 months on the 2nd and our 30th ann. is on thursday.... I will be spending the  next few days with family....This is a hard time for me because our sons b-day is the 2nd, then the ann on the 3rd, and always spent time together on the 4th.... But our Son ask me to spend the day and evening with him and his wife on the 4th, so that made me feel good... I think I will ask to be in seperate rooms for the mediation....
by __STRIKER__   359 Posts
Posted on 6/30/2008 2:17 PM
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