Stbx uses daughter 

6/27/08 Last night I took my daughter for an eye exam and contacts. She went on to tell me that he dad/sbtx had called her to take him to my lawyer to pk up divorce papers. While she did this favor for him he proceded to trash me on and on. After he got the papers he reviewed them w/ her right there. He then asked her to take him to his lawyer. My child chaufferd him all over town while he ran his mouth insulting my and called my daughter names as well. This poor kid was in a hurry to go on a job interview. Listening to the callas nature of this man and knowing his narcicistic disposition, he will tourture any/all as this property sale unfolds. I pleaded w/ my daughter to just come w/ me where you can at least have peace at grandmoms. But she insisted that the house is where her clothes and friends are. I pk up my son from his overnight tonite. I just can't take seeing their faces so sad knowing how much stbx is adding to their burden. Don't know how I can help them.