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I just want to know !! 

I have read some of journals on here over the last couple of days.

And here is what I want to know.

Why is it when people beat the hell out of us emotionally we are the ones who have issues/the problem?

I think it is the people that are hurting people that are the ones with issue/problems.

My husband told me once that I was incapable of love.  Well, that is funny b/c I have no problem loving daughter with all my heart or my family and the GD cat for god sake.  I DID NOT just fall out of love with him.  I was PUSHED out of love. By HIM.

OK, that was my rant for today.

Thank you! :)
by genx  70 Posts 
Posted on 6/26/2008 7:01 PM
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If you know it's the right decision with no regret, you shouldn't feel like the bad guy. If you question your motives, then you have an issue.  I took the blame for quite a while in this. She made me feel like I was a terrible person, when in reality, I was not. It takes two people to mess things up. I'm over feeling like the "bad guy" and I hope at some point she will face her responsibilities as well. It's a lot easier to blame than it is to accept your faults. So it goes both ways, I suppose.
by Desmo   70 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 12:21 PM
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