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Separating but both staying in the home...can it work? 

I have been thinking about a separation but can't really afford to financially.  My therapist suggested that we both stay in the home.  His therapist is still suggesting that we do things together to work on the marriage. I'm still trying to just work on me.  Believe me, it's hard enough!
Has anyone tried this and does it work?  What are the "rules"?  How do the kids handle it?  What about sex?
by Tabasco  9 Posts 

Posted on 6/25/2008 4:53 PM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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I know you posted this quite awhile ago but I am in this situation so I can comment.
We are in the process of divorcing and to save a lot of money, I am sleeping on a makeshift bed in the basement. I've been doing this for about 3 months now. It really does suck and it is quite awkward but it is working. I honestly can't wait to get moved out though. I have saved a ton of cash so far!

I think you need to decide if you want to work on the marriage before you do anything. I don't think sex and doing things together is a good idea if you aren't sure you want to work on the marriage. I haven't seen you around for awhile so I'm hoping this is a sign that you are working on it!
by RichBrewer   214 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 8:47 PM
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Sounds way too complicated.
by asim   773 Posts
Posted on 6/25/2008 10:55 PM
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