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Is cheating diffrent for a man to a woman 

Both me and my husband have cheated on each other.  We decided to try to move on with our future together, but when the past is brought up my husband says that it is diffrent when a man cheats to when a woman cheats. I didn't quite understand him at first so I asked him to explain why.  His answer was when a man cheats it is normal. When a woman cheats she is looked upon as awhore or slut( which I have been called both by him).  I feel if you cheat wether a male or a female it means there are issues that need to be addressed. Am I right or am I in some cosmic universe on this one?
by Melissar  21 Posts 
Posted on 6/25/2008 2:37 PM
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I think he is trying to excuse his cheating by your cheating. There is no difference and he just needs accept reality and get off his (male) double standard horse. 

PS. tell him, this ain't high school anymore!
by blee   96 Posts
Posted on 6/26/2008 12:13 AM
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Cheating is cheating, whether you are male or female, gay or straight.  It means that you made a commitment to someone else, and that commitment was broken.  It doesn't make you a whore, slut, or anything else.  It just means that you are human, and like every other human, you make mistakes.

I think you and your husband should consider seeing a therapist to help you work through these issues.  It is NOT okay for him to call you names in front of your children or anyone else.
by duchick   550 Posts
Posted on 6/25/2008 3:02 PM
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Having been called a whore to and infront of my children as well as the community I understand exactly what you are saying. My husband cheated on me a few times and I always forgave or at least tried to believe him when he said nothing really happened. It seems to be the norm for some men to play the broken husband and cry about their scarlett letter wearing slut of a wife to anyone who will listen. Its crap!
by Kerri   28 Posts
Posted on 6/25/2008 2:55 PM