so, loser ex told me i was a bad parent.

(to quickly recap, this is the man who left his family, when his kids were 1 and 2 years old.  he hadn't worked in 3 years prior to leaving.  left with 1/2 of all assets, including the kids high chairs.  left us at xmas and moved in with my friend...then proceeded to loss his new job and has not paid child support in 3 years).

anyway...i digress.

so, loser ex told me i was a bad parent because i want to send my kids to the best private school i can afford and he prefers they go to public school to be, and i quote, 'with the scrappy kids'.

what are scrappy kids exactly?  what does he mean?

my kids are scrappy.  aren't they?  do they need more lessons in scrappy-ness? 

so, we have been having ongoing battles about what school to send them to.  (yes, good question..why am i involving him in this at all...don't know).

but i am.

so, i ask him 'don't you mean you don't want to pay for private school?"

he says 'it's not about the money.'

i say 'what money? you haven't given us money in 3 years.'

he says 'that's not the point.'

so, what is the point?

anyone know?