who does that??? 

Last week was a tough one.  My Memere past away and my heart is broken.  She has been my one cherished treasure since childhood.  My STBX did not go to the service mainly because I did not want him there and it was his moving day (with his girlfriend). I did not want him there because I needed to grieve with my family, the people that love me and not someone that texts me "whore" every other day. 
Sunday he had my daughter and she was due home that evening.  So I text him asking what time she would be home. He text me back " I get half of your inheritance." I was in shock. I buried my Memere on Friday, me and my two cousins took the shovels and buried her, not even a week and he wants half? Who does that??? I text back " Let me think about it, nope." He has not even paid my Memere any respect by even being kind to me. 
What is conflicting is that my Memere loved him, however she would not be happy with the way he has treated me. Why should I share a gift so he can shack up with his girlfriend? I feel my only obligation is to make sure my girls are taken care of and that will be sufficent enough. 
I am still grieving and now dealing with a dumbass ( like I have for the last 18 years) will it ever end? He knows how much my Memere meant to me and how I love her and will forever and the only thing he said in reference was "so sorry:" via text and of course he wants half. Dink!