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OK..what is up? 

Ok or is it just me, but it seems to me that most of these men are looking for something, younger, cuter, sexier and dumber that the wife or ex wife they currently had or have.  I do not get it.  OK guys give me some input on this one!

Do they honestly think that some young thing is gonna "fix" them.  Or is it just a big identity crisis and mid life crisis.  I do not understand the male psyche...sorry guys but most of you think with the wrong head.

I guess it will be interesting to see what the future holds for the ex and his new play toy.  I am sure that is won't take long for her to decide that he has a lot of baggage that goes along with him...too bad for her, she has no idea what she is getting into.

I give up on the male species.  Where is your sense of empathy and sympathy to kids feelings and family feelings around divorce, or does that just fly out the seat of your pants too.
by dyben  546 Posts 

Posted on 6/9/2008 4:27 AM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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My 15 year experience working with men strongly suggests that men's midlife crises are mostly about unresolved past issues and fear. The unresolved issues run a huge range from bad father experiences to lack of male camaraderie. The fear is related to how many men are incapable of feeling the pain from their recent failed marriage and instead choose to put a band aid on their pain in the form of a younger woman. This is actually sad and your desire for revenge is unnecessary because men who act out in this manner frequently find themselves out on the street once the younger woman realizes that her role is more surrogate than partner. Sounds like you did well to lose this guy.
Ken Solin
by kensolin   99 Posts
Posted on 7/9/2008 1:47 PM
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dyben~
I hear ya loud and clear on that one!!!! I was traded in for a younger healthier version of what I would not call a woman but more of a homewrecker..... I pray one day, he will regret what he has done, and realize he threw his whole family (grown sons and grandbabies) away for a new social life, and a strange new 'piece of A**'.........
I lived with this man for 30 years, and in a period of 6 months I didn't even know who he was anymore...Sorry guys, but I think men are pigs (at least the ones who do what he has done to me).........I have more time to think about all this, and I still can't figure it out.....It has to be a midlife crisis, he is so proud of the 7 hairs left on the top of his head he refuses to shave off and try to 'comb over'...What a joke....I hope he gets dumped flat on his A** or shoots his liver to hell from all the 'crown and coke' that is now his nightly ritual in this new bar he has called home! Gag!!!!.........Hindsight is truly an amazing thing......
by __STRIKER__   597 Posts
Posted on 6/9/2008 6:18 PM
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