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Just Needing Someone to Listen 

My marriage has become so confusing. I did not know where else to go. Then I found this website. I thought I would try it out. I have been married for 2 years and the entire time it has been rocky. Then about 5 months ago my husband stopped trying to make things work and going that extra mile for me. At the same time I was trying. I have been trying for 2 years. After that I found a new job because I was very stressed out from my marriage, the job I was at, finances, etc. At this new job I developed feelings for another man. I have discussed everything with my husband, but it does not seem to help. I do not even really want to be around my husband any longer... He is kind of irritating to me. I still love him but I am not in love with him. Should I stay with him and continue to be unhappy and possibly be happy again one day, or should I get out while I am still half way sane and pretty much start my life over?
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hello, i agree with cutdeep regarding the issue of children. if you have no kids, and your unhappy to the point of allowing yourself to feel for another, then i would have to feel that your way out anyways. if that be the case, save both of yourselves unnecessary heartache. in in the same boat, other than im going to make sure ive done everything in my power to reconcile, then, if i cant, at that time i will know that ive done all i could, and that i could live with, and then i could move on. im here if you need me.

charles
by charles91331   10 Posts
Posted on 6/2/2008 6:34 PM
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Cutdeep just gave you some excellent advice.  You are the only one who can decide if it's time to stay or go. It may be hard to decide but when you are absolutely ready to make that decision, you will feel it inside. There are so many of us here who are here to listen.  Good luck to you.
by deborah-trevino   598 Posts
Posted on 6/2/2008 6:33 PM
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I won't tell you that you should divorce him...you will have to make that decision. But if you don't have any children please don't until you have figured out if you can be happy with him. Children can elevate your problems in a hurting marriage. They can really complicate things for divorce and it brings your marriage to a new level. My advice if you don't have kids---marriage should not have to be so hard. It takes work but not so much work that you need a divorce site. i say move on.
by cutdeep   93 Posts
Posted on 6/2/2008 6:25 PM
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