new girlfriend already 

Well I am already brooding at the fact that the ex has a new relationship after a few months.  Does this suprise me...NO.  Then why does it hurt so much.  He is giving up his time with his kids to be with her.  Canceling his weekends.  I bet the next step is he will want her to me them.  This makes my blood boil.  He has no concern about how his kids are going to feel about dad seeing another woman.  I truly hope that she is a nice person and not young enough that my oldest son could date..LOL.  Although it would not suprise me about that either.  He is truly thinking with the wrong head!!!  How do you prepare your kids for this when in fact they are having a hard time with the fact that dad left them and does not have time for them now.  I know he will spring it on them and not prepare them for this monumental occasion.  that is his stile.  Everything in a secret until the bitter end then wham you get slapped across the face with another lie or twisted story.  Sometimes I wonder if I was the stupid one to have stayed in the relationship for so long.  He is turning into a creepy old man.  I hope our boys turn out to be nothing like him.  Confused, secretive, and never shares his feelings with anyone.  What a sad way to be.  No wonder you want to help him out he is such a sad case.  18 years later he is still the same, sad, confused lonely man.  What a shame.