5/26/08 

It is so nice to not write about any drama.  I had a very laid back day yesterday.  I've decided not to talk to my STBX unless she begins the conversation.  Since she was out most of the day so I didn't deal with her at all.  She's working this AM so it should be a good morning.

I will be served tomorrow and will contact a lawyer.  I'd still prefer to use a mediator, but she thinks she can get whatever she wants.  I know the maximum she can get and its not as good as my last offer.  But the lawyers will end up screwing her.  I expect if we do the lawyer route she'll be broke with bad credit within two years.  That might happen anyway as she has not ability to manage finances.  She still thinks she'll be shopping a Nordstroms, buying high end makeup and have her $150 haircuts.  She might still but will run through the money so fast she won't have any idea what to do once she runs out of money.  Hopefully at that point she'll hook up with someone and then the spousal support will be done.