Are You Cheating On Me? 

This question should not be an uncomplicated question to answer. It is a closed question requiring either a "yes or no" answer.

Not everyone is willing to answer this question, and it amazes me that people are foolish enough to try and "pull a fast one" on their spouses by sleeping around. I wonder how many when confronted will publicly admitted the infidelity.

If the spouse does forgive them it will be a hard days work to buy back their love. There are times I wonder if my spouse cheated on me, I never really confronted him about it, but feel convinced that he did. 

Don't think that I am judging anyone here - it is not possible for me to know what drives someone to cheat on their spouse. However, it is hard to understand how someone who professed to love another person would want to hurt them this way.
 
While watching a talk show, the woman on the show said she cheated on her husband because she felt he did not love her, and was working long hours. She admitted she was wrong, and her spouse said he was not sure if he could get past this.  

This highlights one reason why someone might cheat - they are feeling neglected and unloved. Of course they feel they should find someone else who can love them. Sometimes it feels we are living in a world in which vows (or a person's word) means nothing.  

Yes, cheating can seem like an adventure or taking a risk, and the relationship experts say that people who cheat are sometimes more in love with the thrill of sneaking around, more than actually enjoying the act.  I just don't understand how they are able to keep the two lives they lead from colliding.