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I can not believe I am about to go through this! 

I didn't know 30 months ago, I would be sitting here, about to go through a divorce! This wasn't supposed to be happening to me, I didnt get married to just turn around and get a divorce after just 2 years and 6 months! Now you tell me that it's over, and I get no more chances? You blame me becuase of my insecurities and my issues to why this marriage is ending? I can't believe I married someone like that. Your love is not strong enough to help us through this apparently, that is why this marriage is ending. In my opinion it really doesn't have to end, I know people and couples with more problems and they have managed just fine. What makes, you, me, us, any different? Nothing really, but they all had strength, some have determination, and mostly importantly alot of them had GOD! What a powerful tool is that to have in your marriage. I know the next time around whenever GOD determines it's my season to remarry, I will make sure I will invite him into my marriage and keep him there!
by shira  48 Posts 

Posted on 5/22/2008 8:15 PM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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Comments for "I can not believe I am about to go through this!"  (3) (You must be logged in to answer)
Sometimes we think marriage will solve our relationship problems. The fact is, you probably already knew of your problems and now you have a chance to get counseling to work on them and to learn from it. If you learn from it and grow positively...he may come back if it's God will.
by Flyby   34 Posts
Posted on 5/22/2008 10:22 PM
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Glad to hear you are open to a next time.  I used to always joke when my friends would bitch and say "Don't worry!! The second marriage is always much better" OHHHH was I dead wrong. But only wrong on me.  I see so many friends that hate their spouses, no respect, no love just hardly even tolerance and you see a couple smiling & laughing the get run down by the bid D. You just never know what to expect when you leave yourself open. I give you credit.You are willing to try again. I am terrified of opening up again.  I am 35 on number 2 and I don't know if I could do this again.
 I hope you find mister right. And I hope you find him soon. I hope he loves, respects you & spoils you like a princess.
by Branny   743 Posts
Posted on 5/22/2008 9:47 PM
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Good luck to you. Apparently he was not ready for the responsiblity and commitment.
I am sorry. Maybe next time you will find someone to really commit.
It is sad. There is so much of it.
by mtnvly   2332 Posts
Posted on 5/22/2008 8:18 PM
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