Ok, here is my story... 1 year ago... We worked different shifts so there were some things that I didn't know about him yet...
We dated and all was happy. Then, we got engaged and he sold his condo and moved in with me. I got a little bit lazy. So, I did most of the cooking and cleaning and we both work FT. (no kids, just dogs) He was always heavy but kept eating! We were the best of friends so I married him... then, he decided that since I was his wife I should still work, cook and clean. He was working 50hr per week and I 40-45... He said that I could make up his work hours by cleaning on my days off. (on his days off he decided those were days of relaxation and XBOX and eating) We began sleeping in seperate rooms because he snored and tossed and turned all night.
We started to grow apart... I worked, cooked, cleaned, weed wacked the yard, went to the gym, stopped smoking and he did nothing.
I told him last year if things didn't change and he didn't start treating me like a wife,  I couldn't stay.
He changed for 2 months... He put away dishes and took out the garbage.. when I asked about that...he said that I should be glad he is helping.
Now, he started a new job that we work the same hours...I notice at this point he doesn't show from Thursday night until Sunday night. His excuse is that he doesn't sweat. We really never had sex since we got married, I had to only go by his times. (he is lazy-I had to do that work too)
Anyway, it has gotten to the point where I really feel alone and I told him that. We sleep in seperate rooms, he can't take care of his personal hygene and he doesn't treat me like wife...I feel like a buddy and a maid. I gave him a year to change and I have grow apart from him.
I told him that I want a divorce. He now is telling family and friends that I just got sick of him.
We are in the process of splitting up the assets...Even though I may keep the house (it was mine before) he EXPECTS to stay there for 6 months to a year.
By the way did I mention that when he goes to the bathroom... he only washes the hand he whipped with! Is that lazy or what???
His parents are like Ward and June Clever, I love them. But I can't stay for them.
Anyway, that is part of my story that I decided to get off my chest.

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