The weirdest divorce EVER 

Well, the divorce will be final on May 28th.  I'll finally be free, even though I didn't want to be.  This has been the weirdest divorce ever.  He still acts as though we were married sometimes.  He called me this morning, and was joking and flirting with me as if he still cared.  If I still cared it would probably have hurt, but I'm finally moving on. 
I didn't do a very good job of not dating.  I went ahead and went out with a few people even though the divorce was not final, but you know, I'm glad I did... it was a total ego boost to get acceptance from another man.  I'm quite well aware that I'm not ready for a relationship and make that clear to any man I go out on a date with, but I'm totally into just having fun and seeing where things go if we just take it really slow.  I hope no one judges me for seeing someone else so soon, but I really just wanted some companionship, and I'm having a blast dating.  I was scared, but I'm so glad I did it.  It's done wonders for my self-esteem which was in the trash when the EX decided he didn't want to be married to me anymore.  Now, I don't care.  It took me a few months to get over it, but now he can do what he wants, and I can even take his confusing behavior with a grain of salt.  I know I need to set boundaries with him, and I no longer allow him to control me.  It's very liberating.  I'm living my own life now.  My daughter and I have bonded and I'm even improving my relationships with my sons.  My life is good, and I'm glad to be moving on.  So, bring on May 28th.  I'll be ready and waiting.