no longer in love, and he wanted a divorce. So I know exactly how it feels when you say being in love with someone who is love with someone else. I just cant believe it. It really shocks you I didnt quite understand what was happening, or how he could fall for another women. When I found out how, it angered me. She felt in all of the voids that I wasnt fulfilling. She talked to him, she spent time with him, she made him feel like a man. Something hs wife wasnt fulfilling. Crazy huh?

You have taken the words right out of my heart. My husband was having issues with our marriage way before his emotional affair began,(which in my opinion is worse than a physical one). You see when I was 14 I had a relationship with a very older guy that emotionally/mentally abused me. I began to suffer with those issues once I entered college, and have been dealing with them ever since. I am very insecure and have extremely low self esteem. I sit and think about the things I put my husband through during these short 2 years of marriage. I pushed him away sooooo much, with my accusations, questioning, and assumptions. I was always accusing him of doing something, looking at other women, cheating on me, snooping through his emails and phone records, not treating him like the man and father I should have etc. etc. etc. etc. At one point I got so emotionally stable that I isolated and secluded myself. It was weird. I went got another job, to get away from our house, and when I was at home I never wanted to talk to him, spend time with him, or just be with him you know. During this time, my husband started to get really close with a female co-worker of his, and started confiding in her about our issues. I mean he knew he wanted the divorce before I did. And course by me being away so much, mentally emotionally and physically, they soon fell head over heals for each other. I was unaware all of this was going on until I happened to snoop again one day and see some emails, and pictures being sent. I confronted him of course, and he lied about it, so I contacted her, she came over, and all of his beans were spilled. I found out they were in love and planned on being together after we were divorced. But wait...... I didnt know we were getting a divorce. hmmmm....do you know how humilating that was to be the last to know whats gonna happen in your life? Her mother knew, and her sister knew. My hubby and I had a good talk about the situation and he said he was no longer.......