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All or nothing part II 

I know that when you marry you should resolve all issues individually or with each other BEFORE you marry. I know that, but didnt do it.  I felt I could deal with it on my own. I figured why bring him through this. But I soon got the picture, I cant do this alone, I need my life long partner to support me, and help me through this. He no longer wants to, but I also thought that you take a person for what they are, flaws and all and support them, I didnt know when times got rough, you just jump ship. He claims he is so unhappy with me, then leave, why are you still living here with me. You claim this isnt for you anymore, the damage is already done, you cant go back and change that. RIGHT>>>>>very smart choice of words to choose. you cant change that. you can only move forward. TOGETHER..........................thats the only way. Not separate after 2 years of marriage. Not when there is so much potential for us......so I am going to ask him to leave.
by shira  48 Posts 
Posted on 5/21/2008 8:44 PM
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How does someone that once loved you just up and jump ship? I can't understand that either. If you two are still living together with all those bad feelings and mixed emotions, one of you should definently leave. Give yourselves some space and time to see if that is what you want. Separation can be a good thing as long as you keep an open mind and open communication. We all have flaws and issues that we brought into our marriages, but we fell in love despite those flaws
by nowareman   58 Posts
Posted on 5/22/2008 9:01 AM
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GOOD FOR YOU. I know you love him but he seems to like hurting you. I am sure he knows how you feel with this situation.  I know about the jump ship shit too.  It is sad that when you see so much potential And you can only do so much about it if the other person don't want to work for it.  I wish you all the love you deserve Shira.  I have read several of your posts and I know you are hurting. I am glad you are looking at whats best for you right now
**huggs***
take care of you
by Branny   544 Posts
Posted on 5/21/2008 9:49 PM
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