1 more thing part II 

I mentioned to him, the issues and problems that you have with me, would and will be 10X more worse with her! 1. your so called "relationship" was built out of your voids for me. 2.You two didnt just meet and form a relationship unattached, you both were involved in relationships at the time of the affair. a. you were married. b. she was engaged.3.this is a deceitful, sinful relationship, was morally incorrect and was looked down upon from GOD.5. This relationship could never be blessed because of the way you got together. GOD can not bless something that is morally wrong in his eyes.6. There will never be any boundaries of trust, why? because if you did it to your wife, the person that should be most precious to you, and she did it to her fiance, her soul mate, why wouldnt you do it to each other? If you fall for the wrong thing, you will fall for anything! Sooner or later when you two fall out of love, and start being realistic you both will see that.............and eventually that thing, that void that brought you two together will inevidently dissappear. Poof.......just like that. By that time however.............you will be too ashamed to even admit to yourself. you think thats love you feel, no sweet heart it's only an illusion of your young mind. But you know when I tried to explain that to him what his response was? "I dont think she could do that to me." Wow..............you are a really sick love puppy! You dont think she could do that to you, what, you think you are different? Why because you are attractive, you smell and dress well? She did it to her fiance she can and easily will do it to you, you arent any different. Dont you see? No you dont, because you are blinded by what you think is love. Not the truth or reality. I feel sorry for you love puppy...............honestly I do. Open your eyes and see the light!