1 more thing 

This other women...............hhhhmmmmmmm.... someone who has been in my house for holiday and social gatherings. Someone who has cared for our daughter on numerous occasions. Sometimes several weekends at a time. I remember she used to always ask MY husband to do little house hold things for her, or drop her off at the airport. Something her fiance could of and should of been doing. Once my husband told her of these concerns, she had the nerve to call me to apologize and inform me how much she respected me and my marriage, and would never do anything to disrupt that. Really.................Well why less than a month later are you in love with MY husband, making plans with MY husband to be together once me and him were divorced, being intimate with him, sending him naked pictures, and meeting up with him places. Is that respect?  No my sweetie, that isnt. Matter of fact you dont even respect yourself! A man is only going to tell you what you want to hear. Especially in an affair. He is only going to show you what is needed to keep you interested duh. Are you that naive. Why do I have to school you? I know me and you both are only 25 but geez, how come I have the sense but you lack. I mean look at it this way, he is still living with me, we were still intimate at that time, and he hadnt filed any paper work yet. I dont care how unhappy he told you he was, or how done we were, I dont care if he even spoke to your mother about his affections for you. He is still married and off limits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Duh!!!!!!!!! Just because he says he wants a divorce, doesnt mean he actually will go through with it, there are still chances and hopes that he could change his mind......You know it's called reconciliation!!!! go ahead and google that word to find out it's definition. So I dont feel sorry for you, that you got caught, nor do I care that you got in trouble with the military. HAHAHAHAHA! Oh by the way this may not even matter, but you arent even attractive. She was built like a man, Has a light mustache, deep voice,and had no fashion sense. I guess my husband settled for less. whewwwwwww..........that felt great to get off of my chest.
P.S. If my husband does decide to be with this naive, ignorant female, after all of this, I think i will  literally choke myself.