I feel so hopeless and helpless. 2 weeks ago  I bought A new car. The dealer let me drive it off the lot before I was even financed because  i have pretty good credit again. I rebuilt my credit after having issues several years ago.When the credit companies called for an address verification, they got ahold of my honery wife, who began to rip me apart. She told them that I was a worthless human being, a looser, couldn't pay my bills and a dead beat. The dealer called my at work asking for their car back because of what she said, they were concerned that it may be more difficult to find financing. My credit score is 650. I bought and paid for my house when I was 27. My past credit issues happened 10 years before we married but it bugs the crap out of her. I Don't make alot alot money but we live comfortably. 90% of our issues are about money. We can't afford all the luxuries but we do okay. She enjoys living in my house without a mortgage/rent. Now she thinks that she is going to get it in the divorce. I still have hope that she will reconsider, but I doubt it. She is pissed off to no end. I want so badly for her to work on our marriage. No infidelity involved, just bad feelings. I think that couples should put every effort into saving their marriage until every option has been exhausted before calling it quits. I don't understand how she can give up so easily. I love her so much. I don't know how she can be so hurtful. she is my best friend. My enemas don't treat me this bad. What makes a person turn so bitter towards the one they once fell in love with? If you cant work out your issues why not separate peacefully instead of with a bunch of animosity. Why be hateful. I have done nothing except respect her wishes. I have not harassed her in any way nor have I done anything spiteful. But she is being nasty. even so I do still love her and I think I always will. I can forgive and forget, why cant she? Why wont she even speak to me? I hope that in time she will be willing to comprise, but I doubt it because once she makes up her mind to do something, it happens. That's one of her traits that I love about her, Except in this case.