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5/15/08 

I am astonished at how fast love has turned to hate.  My affair driven wife now wants to ruin the family financially and have to make the kids move due to her greed.  She refuses to take any responsibility for the divorce even though she wants it.  Now she wants to uproot the kids when we had a solid plan to keep them in the home and her getting an enourmous amount of money.  She doesn't realize that by what she is doing she is going to end up with less cash for living expenses but if that is what she wants.

Bring on the lawyers!


by falcon81    
Posted on 5/15/2008 9:07 AM
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Tags: hate , love , lawyers , cash

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That sux Falcon.  We managed to avoid the lawyer scene.  "Try to be as friendly as you can," is all I can offer.  Do your best not to mimic her actions. Concentrate on your family, and do what's best for them.   It will mean some sacrifice, and it will mean standing up when needed.  Somebody has to look out for the kids best interest.  Make sure you put that first, and at least you're showing them how to act like responsible adults.  It sounds like they need a good example right now.
by Robert-Boyd  1611 Posts
Posted on 5/15/2008 12:05 PM
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Just think of how you and your stbx's inability to reach an agreement  will help put the lawyers kids through law school...

and the lawyers marched arm in arm happily to the bank.  The end!

I feel for you. Do what ever it takes to get her to reach an agreement before you hit the family courts.  Otherwise prepare yourselves for financial ruin!
by blee  69 Posts
Posted on 5/15/2008 10:29 AM
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