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It Was All Over But The Cryin! 

That must have been what he thought when I told him that I was divorcing him. He had carried on for such a long time the day that I found him coming out of her apartment with her after he had been in there for over an hour was the straw that broke the camels back for me. I had suffered with many years of his name calling, treating me like I was nothing and what's worse, is that I trusted him. I never thought he would ever cheat. One day out of the blue, an old friend asked me when we had gotten divorced, but at that time, we were still together. She spoke about how she and her family had seen him numerous times in someone else's apartment and thought that he was now with someone else. I didn't want to believe her. She didn't tell me to hurt me. She was only asking. I decided to go and find her in those apartments one morning to ask her more. Why would she even think we were divorced? I ran into his van, parked by an apartment and I started shaking. He had told me that morning that he would be in another city working and I just couldn't believe it. When I got home, I was so panicked that I packed all my things and left. He called me over and over once he found out. He didn't want to see what he had done to me, only that I had left him. It was all over and it was his turn to cry
by Deborah-Trevino  272 Posts 
Posted on 5/13/2008 6:30 AM
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I was married for 12 years in which 7 of them i have spent in hell with a habitual liar, alcoholic, and most of all cheater.  i finally made the decision to seperate to see if this is what we both really want  I was so hurt from all the cheating.  But I have 3 boys and I know how important  a male figure is in their lives.  After 2.5 months of seperation no calls to check on the kids or happy birthday wishes no info.  Now he is in Houston, Tx with the woman who threatened to kill me.   At this time I think no communication is best but now he too will be crying because his precious jewels are the ones they hurt not me!
by chocolat   1 Post
Posted on 5/13/2008 8:05 AM
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