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Life after divorce and starting new relationships 

I've been divorced for going on 4 months now and I don't know if it's me or what, but I'm having doubts about this relationship that I'm in now. I don't know if it's too soon to be in a relationship like this or if I waited too long. We've only been going out a month and have plans of getting married next year, but I'm scared that I'll marry just to have another divorce. I don't know if I do have a Ms./Mrs. Right looking for me and I looking for her. I do want to be married, have kids and be with that special someone for the rest of my life. If you have any advice, please don't hesitate to tell me. I gladly appreciate advice and comments.


by Keith  3 Posts 
Posted on 5/9/2008 4:12 PM
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You owe it to yourself and the girl you are dating to take the time that is needed to develop trust, commitment, and TRUE LOVE!!!  One month has red flag written all over it.  Her first test will be in her understanding of your fears/concerns. (which is perfectly normal for your situation).
by blee   96 Posts
Posted on 5/10/2008 12:37 AM
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How much alone time did you spend Keith?  We all need some time to reset after a divorce.  Granted, if your situation is like mine, that time started MONTHS before the divorce was ever finalized.  Only you know if your ready.  If you're having doubts, it's best to face them now before you find out you've made another mistake.  If this woman is the one, then slowing things down to get a grip won't change that.

Be careful.
by Robert-Boyd   2460 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 5:12 PM
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WOW - four months and already planning a marriage.  I know everyone is different but I cannot imagine being in a place where I would be barely ready to date someone four months later - let alone plan on marrying them. 

It seems if you are having doubts that is your smarter self screaming ---- SLOW down.  Take a deep breath and wait.  I just wonder how you can know you want to marry someone after a month.  I would really back up and take some time. 

Good luck and believe that when it's RIGHT you will really feel it in your heart.
by Mb   196 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 4:25 PM
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