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How Does He Treat You After The Divorce? 

After our divorce, he was hurt, understandably. He didn't want the divorce, but I felt like I couldn't live with him knowing that he had cheated on me for such a long time. I fled like a bat out of heck if you know what I mean. I kept my distance because all he did after we divorced was call me crying about how he loved me and the kids. He wrote me notes, he left me cell phone messages. At first, all we did was go around and round about his cheating. We could never get out of that circle. It was hopeless. I then learned to stay completely away from him except for when he wanted to see his daughter, but that never happened. We stayed apart for a good 8 months. He saw me one day and was so nice to me. He must have finally felt some guilt for his actions. How did he treat me then after so long? He was just like the first time we met. How strange that with time apart, he actually saw how he hurt me. How does your ex treat you now?
by deborah-trevino  598 Posts 

Posted on 5/8/2008 6:16 AM
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my soon to be ex expects me to act like he did nothing wrong. He devastated me and the kids, walked out on me, the kids, turned our lives upside down, and 2 months after he moved out i found out he had been having an affair. Still trying to figure out how long that had been going on becasue everything that comes out of his mouth is LIES!!!! He is a cheater and liar. From what i can tell, his family has accepted what he has done, he has a single life now, has a set visiting schedule with the kids but is late when other people are priorioty over the children. He picks and chooses what activities he wants to come to, especially our 6 year old little boy who needs him the most. And, he expects me to act normal. He tells me i am acting crazy and i need counseling!!!! Which of course makes me even angrier, the divorce is dragging on....he wants HER to meet my children...that will be difficult, a very difficult time for them and me. I just don't understand!
by gerber22   5 Posts
Posted on 5/12/2008 11:12 AM
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