My wife kicked me out of our home 3 weeks ago and I don't know what to do. it is actually the home that I bought and paid for 12 years before we even married. she didn't pay a dime for it. I came home from work one evening and the usual argument over money started immediately. she kicked me to the curb with only a change of clothes and a few toiletries. Then she served me with a protection order. I own a $300,000.00 home but now I am homeless living in roach motel that I cant afford. The day that she took my name off of our auto insurance policy, I was pulled over and got a $739.00 ticket for no insurance. She has had my cell phone shut off. Wont give me my mail or any other personal belongings, not even my 2007 W-2 forms so that I can file my income taxes. Because there is a protection in place,I cant have any contact with her what so ever to find out what we can do to save our marriage. I want to go to counseling before proceeding with divorce because when I gave her my vow of "for better or for worse; till death do us part" thats exactly what I meant. I am so devastated that my wife, my lover, my best friend can be so evil and cruel. I am not angry, just extremely confused. If she wants to split, why cant  we do it peacefully with respect to each other? It seems to me that a compromised divorce would be much easier to deal with. Am I wrong? I am 43 she 45. this is my first marriage and would be her third divorce. The last thing she said to me before giving me the boot is "we are too different" which we are, but is that a reason to be so evil? Don't opposites attract? I don't wish her any ill will, but I do want her to be happy. I am not aware if she has filed any divorce papers. I don't want to divorce but if that is what it takes for me to get back into my home, thats what will happen. We don't have any children together. I am employed, she is not.I think that her problem with me is that I don't make enough money and am not a good provider. We have more than alot of people. We have a  mortgage free home, 3 late model vehicles, all of our home furnishings, several pets, and a genuine love for each other. I am not a materialistic person and what we do have may not be the newest or best but we have it. Neither of us has ever been unfaithful, but she has been in constant contact with my brother, and that scares me. They are more alike than her and I and I am having thoughts that she may just try to get with him just to hurt me further. I wouldn't put it past either of them. My brother is the only family that I have left. I just now tried to call him @ 901 pm and got no answer, at a time when he would normally be home. I cant think clearly and dont know what I should do